Sabina
Moul tee mouj, the two angels without wings, devoid of magic wands transforming impossibilities into possibilities, invest their emotions and strengths in clearing obstacles for their dear ones, especially during times when others might abandon us.
They are nothing less than a blessing, their unconditional love for us reflected in Holy Books, woven into the stories of all living things, and given to us in our hour of sorrow. In the face of intentional or unintentional hurts, these angels preserve these moments, standing firm when others flee, offering unwavering support amid life's adversities, even when unfairly blamed for failures. In moments of judgment, they believe in us, playing the pivotal role of architects when we stand on the precipice of self-destruction.
As found in Surah Al-Isra, verse 23: "Your Lord has decreed that you worship none but HIM and do good to your parents. If any of them or both of them reach old age in their life, say not to them a word of contempt, nor repel them but address them in terms of honour." Moreover, in Al-Ankabut 29:8, "And We have enjoined on man to be good and dutiful to his parents.
Unfortunately, in the midst of our materialistic endeavors, we frequently consider this great blessing to be a heavy load. Our society's growing heartlessness and emotional detachment have transformed us into time-driven machines and emotionless robots, where financial responsibilities are viewed as cumbersome burdens. In a quest to unburden ourselves, we consign our parents to old-age homes, neglecting their well-being and overlooking the potential repercussions on future generations.
This shift in society begs the poignant question: are we unintentionally losing our humanity and tainting the pure forms of love and respect that once defined us in our quest for freedom from obligations? Are we unintentionally preparing the next generation for a life free from moral obligations and familial duties, rather than defending traditions and morals?
Our shared conscience holds the solution. Upon contemplating the aftermath of our deeds, it is clear that abandoning the sacred obligation to our parents puts not only our humanity in danger but also the moral bedrock that sustains societies. Age-related homes are becoming symbols of our collapsing morality, showing how society is moving away from a relational to a transactional understanding of family.
To rekindle the flame of compassion and preserve the sanctity of the parent-child relationship, it is imperative that we reassess our priorities. Our journey as individuals is intertwined with the legacy we leave for the generations to come. Embracing the responsibility of caring for our parents not only honors them but also cultivates a sense of duty and empathy in the hearts of our children, especially when others may choose to leave us alone.
In our pursuit of success and financial prosperity, let us not lose sight of the intangible wealth that resides in the warmth of family bonds. The love and care bestowed upon us by our parents are the foundations of a compassionate society. It is incumbent upon us to break free from the shackles of materialism, rediscover our humanity, and uphold the values that bind us together.
In conclusion, the two angels without wings, our parents, embody a profound blessing that transcends cultural and religious boundaries. By acknowledging and cherishing this gift, we safeguard not only our own humanity but also contribute to the moral fabric of society. In the delicate dance of life, let us remember that true success lies not just in personal achievements but in the love, respect, and care we share with those who brought us into this world, especially when faced with the prospect of standing alone.
(The author is currently working as a Gender specialist in the Department of social welfare and can be reached at sabinaaarizoo@gmail.com)
